37 weeks and dilemma

Hi mummies I am FTM I am not sure if i want to go for natural delivery or c sect, my constipation today i think made small tear near my anus it’s sting when kena water. If a hard poop can make the skin tear easily then isnt the childbirth will make me tear even more to the point reach 3rd or 4th degree? 🙁 I know i have to decide asap but c sect ppl say recovery is slower😵‍💫

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Talk to ur gynae, believe they have some meds for constipation. Drink loads of water n eat a lot of greens! I wanted to try natural birth, induce for 3 days, unable to and went under emergency C-sect. Recovery is much slower, especially when my baby cries, and I almost went into depression coz can’t get up from my bed without help (due to tenosynovitis on both wrist) coz of the useless confinement nanny that I can’t trust

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