maintenance money

Muslim mummy here. I'm not working. I dont ask him for allowance. I have all his bank card. Every month payday, I will make sure he pays the bills first. Once he have paid all the bills, I settle the groceries and kids stuffs. After their stuffs settled, only then I buy my stuffs like new clothes, make up etc. I will always put house and kids stuffs first. My husband dont mind also what I do with all his money as long as we get the importants ones settled first.