Ranting abt my husband

Hi mummies. My husband asks if he can go on a volunteer trip with his company committee to Batam for 1 night at the end of the year. By then, I would have delivered my baby for less than a month. Do you think its right that he goes? Its not impt at all, but he wants to go. I felt quite upset abt it, like he is throwing his responsibilities at me just to have fun. Seems like he have no idea the amt of ‘work’ that needs to be done with a baby.

Vô danh

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I understand how you feel. My husband asked if he can go for a company trip (4D3N) while I was still on confinement (first day to be exact). I rejected and explained to him that we are FTP, no help from any parents and I don’t think it’s nice for him to throw me alone to figure out how to do this while he’s out there enjoying himself. I told him that he can go after baby is 1yo. Angry? Yes confirm will, especially when I’m so lack of sleep and everything feels so new. But at least he bothered to ask me(and respected my rejection) rather than suddenly MIA. My baby is 19mo, he’s back from company trip yesterday 😂.

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