Ranting abt my husband

Hi mummies. My husband asks if he can go on a volunteer trip with his company committee to Batam for 1 night at the end of the year. By then, I would have delivered my baby for less than a month. Do you think its right that he goes? Its not impt at all, but he wants to go. I felt quite upset abt it, like he is throwing his responsibilities at me just to have fun. Seems like he have no idea the amt of ‘work’ that needs to be done with a baby.

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Personally for me, i wont allow. I didnt even allow my husband to be the best man for his close friend’s wedding which will be going on end of year, by then baby is 3 months and he understands it. Sometimes we have to be stern too and sometimes husband wont really know anything and the amount of responsibility once you have a child. Plus if baby less than a month i believe both parents need to work together esp the husband need to really support and help the wife.

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