hi mummies, could you share effective tips on encouraging your kids? i often hear 'good job'. is that useful?

I will be specific in praising and encouraging. I know you can put your toys back in the basket, because you are a big boy! thank you for keeping your toys! I am proud of you! you are being nice by greeting everyone! Oh! You need help with putting on your shoe? let's do it together, let me show you how to do it on one side and then you don't the other, ok? something liddat.