helper

Yes. Helper helping out mil in term of housework, grocery etc while mil taking care of my LO

If your helper is good she can help It is a good idea to leave the kids there

Ya may talk to your helper and see if she agree to help out

Depend on helper . Better to talk to her first .

Yes ofcourse but you need to speak to her first

By right cannot... If she complains that's it

By right cannot.

Sure

If the agreement is to follow the kids, there is no issue cos thats part of the agreed job scope.