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no not at all. in fact the thought would not even come to my mind. if as a woman the thought of not being able to become a mother can make me feel sad, i am sure it would be difficult for my partner also to come to terms with. i would rather be supportive and help him get out of any stress and sadness and be a loving partner. if i was going through a health issue, which this is, i would expect my partner to be by my side, and i would do the same to him, not leave him for it.
Being a woman, I do not think I would be having the liberty to do so, which I believe is wrong in either case. I mean not being able to bear a child because of physical reasons is something that we don't have any hold on, so there is no point blaming the spouse. But, yes, I have seen quite a few couples who have re-married because their first wife couldn't bear a child. One being my neighbour in my home town. And I do not support this thought process.
no i would never do that. my reason for being with a partner would never be to create babies, but it would be more of love and companionship. if i have loved him for the person he is, i would never leave him for something else that his body does not permit him to do. i understand the importance people place on babies, but i feel that even if one does not have kids but has a loving and understanding partner, life can be really good.
Hi, No, definitely not. Now days, there are so many ways that one can have a baby if someone is hell bent upon having their own, like, through IVF, surrogacy. And adoption is always there. But I am a kind of person who wouldn't give up on my relationship with my husband over this issue. And I can proudly say that my husband too values our relationship above all.
having a child is not the only goal of being in a relationship. if i find out that my partner is not able to have kids, i would tell him that it is absolutely fine and there are other ways to have babies if that is what he wants. one can always go for IVF, or even adoption, so this is definitely not something that one should leave a partner for.
No. I wouldn't. If not being able to child is a choice then I would definitely discuss it before getting married but if it is because of some physical problem that my spouse is unable to have kids then I of course would not leave him.
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