Even hubby comes back, he should spend some time bonding with the baby.
This is important as you are the one bonding usually.
Regarding salon, you can still beautify yourself but when you really have the time else going for a haircut should be ok. Have someone to look after for you a while.
An hour or two should be more than enough.
As for your dental appointment, get your husband to go along with you and the baby.
They can don't be inside and just wit for you outside the clinic.
In this way, father and baby get bonding time as well.
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