Jus had a quarrel with my hubby.. I'm a SAHM . I have Two kids. Every day after my hubby's work , I desire that he spend a bit of time to bond with our kids. Jus 30 mins is good cos I understand that he is tired after work so I try to be reasonable . Jus now we started to have some disagreement over something n he begins to say things like give him a break after work , he is tired n can't help out so much with the kids.. etc.. he Meant to say that I'm a SAHM , I should do everything , why involve him n ask him to help with this n that. Though I'm a SAHM but my role is not easy too n i feel tired too after one whole day of looking after kids, cooking , housework etc. I don't laze around , I work hard the whole day too. Then he told me if it is so hard for me to be a SAHM , then I should jus quit being a SAHM n go out to work . At least I can bring home income.. I feel so upset .. am I really v demanding ? Sob.

Vô danh

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You are not being demanding my dear, I'm a SAHM too and I expect the same from my husband. At the start, we were not on the same page and fought a lot... He claimed he's tired after work, but could stay up late till 1, 2am to watch Youtube or Netflix. Many a times he would rather do those things than play with our little boy... Its sad to watch the LO looking his way but the husband glued to his phone! He's gotten "better" as time went by, but only after numerous screaming matches... As one of the other users said: the men are not just sperm donors.

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Home Just Mums jus had quarrel with hubby im sahm i have two kids every day after hubby work i desire that spend bit time bond with kids jus 30 mins good cos i understand that tired after work i try reasonable jus now started have some disagreement over something n begins say things like give him break after work tired n t help out much with kids etc meant say that im sahm i should everything why involve him n ask him help with n that though im sahm