full month

Isit a must to have full month celebration for baby ? I dun wish to have this celebration at the end of the month but some uncle at his side said must have . It's annoying me . Wad gives him the rights to make decision even if he is the biggest uncle bla bla bla . Surname etc is just a word in the ic . It should be my decision the one who give birth to my baby . I said 100 days I'm still ok when I'm at least ready recovered and baby get his full 3 jabs . But some stupid chinese thing old fashion want it 1 month . I feel so stress every single day . I got no appetite to even eat . I'm stress everytime my in laws come n visit they keep talking so loud and chor lor infront of my baby . N when he is sleeping somemore . N when he is sleeping my husband want me to let them carry . Its disturbing my baby . Why are they so inconsiderate . It makes me scared everytime when I hear they are coming . My husband thinks I'm having depression . He thinks I think everyone is a threat to my baby . But tts not wad i think . I just feel ppl shud be more considerate when there is a baby here . I've talk things out with him but haiz . Am I being too over protective towards my baby or am I being wrong .

Feli

Preggers

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Not a must. I didn't celebrate too

Feli

Preggers

5y trước

Ikr . But to his biggest uncle is a must and he n his mother scared they say them which I dun give a s*** about what ppl say

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In the past, Chinese celebrate baby’s full month is just purely at home, like some sort of “mini celebration”. Which also includes praying to ancestors etc if they do have it at home, if not will just skip it. Nowadays, people celebrate by throwing parties, inviting a lot people and so. Maybe if your Husband & in-laws side insist on celebrating, you might wanna suggest to keep the circle small? Maybe not throw a big party or what? Just a mini celebration at home or what. It might be a better choice for you and your Husband, like you taking a step back and so does he.

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Feli

Preggers

5y trước

Wadever decisions I make I feel it's right but my husband thinks I'm too over n said I got depression . Omg .

It’s not a must. Talk to your husband. Say it’s all for baby wellbeing!

Feli

Preggers

5y trước

I did but they only care of wad ppl say and no red packet . This is more like he n his mother planning . I did say no n etc n say all the concerns but they only care of wad Chinese custom bla bla bla say baby 1 month must make la . Say biggest uncle want it ,if dun do than ppl will start saying

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