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should it be me travelling bringing my baby to visit the in laws or should it be the other way round ,they come over visit baby ?

Should it be my in laws coming over to visit baby or I should be the 1 bringing my baby over to visit them ? I have a mama boy husband who keep saying I need to put in effort to bring baby to visit his parents . But isnt it suppose to be the other way round . If they care for him they shud be the 1 making effort to come visit .

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milk

Ok I'm very paranoid now . My baby is reaching 4 months old on 9 dec . And weighs 6.1kg . He just recently changed his milk powder from stage 1 mamil gold to similac total comfort stage 1 . Reason for changing because it stated it's good for baby who have enzymnia or to prevent enzymnia or smth like tt . Well his rash seems to be getting better but what concern me now is the amount . It stated for his age the feeding instruction is to give him drink 180ml . N my baby got this regurate problem. Plus now he got this habit rlor dunno isit he discomfort or what ,than he will drink halfway than start to wiggle n cry . Like he is piss with smth . I change his diaper etc but still he dunwan drink finish his milk . Got one time he drink 1/4 only than he start his nonsense again . For mamil gold its 150 ml but it seems to make his rash abit worst . I dunno . Is there any milk that u all can recommend like for 4 months old but in lesser amount each feed for every 4 hours . And suitable for baby who easy get rash . I'm very paranoid now cause he keep dunwan drink finish his milk n keep crying not happy with the milk ?

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3 immune jabs .

Hi may I know is the first jab for baby considered the one taken at the hospital? Or big is not considered as the 3 immunization jab . And the 3 jabs is to protect bb immune right ?

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less than 1 month old

My bb is less than 1 month old . I need to bring to polyclinic for his jaundice check every once a week . By right Its not advisable to even bring bb go out at this stage but I got no choice cause he needs to . I put him in a pram n use a swaddle to cover . I got to cover right? My husband thinks I'm too over protective . Say baby cant see outside .

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full month

Isit a must to have full month celebration for baby ? I dun wish to have this celebration at the end of the month but some uncle at his side said must have . It's annoying me . Wad gives him the rights to make decision even if he is the biggest uncle bla bla bla . Surname etc is just a word in the ic . It should be my decision the one who give birth to my baby . I said 100 days I'm still ok when I'm at least ready recovered and baby get his full 3 jabs . But some stupid chinese thing old fashion want it 1 month . I feel so stress every single day . I got no appetite to even eat . I'm stress everytime my in laws come n visit they keep talking so loud and chor lor infront of my baby . N when he is sleeping somemore . N when he is sleeping my husband want me to let them carry . Its disturbing my baby . Why are they so inconsiderate . It makes me scared everytime when I hear they are coming . My husband thinks I'm having depression . He thinks I think everyone is a threat to my baby . But tts not wad i think . I just feel ppl shud be more considerate when there is a baby here . I've talk things out with him but haiz . Am I being too over protective towards my baby or am I being wrong .

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stomachache

I'm 36 weeks pregnant . Is having diarrhoea and those diarrhoea kind of stomachache normal ?

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stress

I'm 36 weeks pregnant . Edd on 21 aug . There are alot of things happening and I cant stop thinking about it . My f.i.l is in a bad condition and dont think he can survive long . My husband gotta busy settle him . His mom is always busy working or either she doesn't want to come home instead of staying out walking around just to come back late . Isn't it suppose to be the wife who settle the husband things and look after her own husband . Isn't my own husband suppose to be looking after his wife . We are not staying together cause our house is not ready . Only sometimes I stay at his house and sometimes he stays at my house . But cause his father is in bad shape and now he is in hospital he said he cant stay over my house he got to be home . What if I'm going to give birth alrdy and he need to busy settle his father cause his mother always leave everything to him . And I need go in labour give birth myself . I am scared . What if his father is gone and his mother keep following Nd sticking around us . Or when new house is up she say she want to stay with us . I am those type who cant live with in laws and I want to still enjoy the small family circle where it's only me n my kids n my husband staying together . We made an agreement long ago tt his mother only move in when she need ppl to look after her alrdy . But now what he said is different. He said when his mother stay alone she will move in with us alrdy than old house can rent out for money . The thing is his mom is inconsiderate type and is not auto those type. When we go dating go for movie we nv ask her along she scold us say why nv jio her . I said we dating why u want follow . She say how old alrdy still dating . I dun think I can live happily if she move in stay with me. N my husband is very close to her . But why would he be scared whether she is lonely when she all the while is living the life like tt . Got husband but dunwan go home see him . We are married we start our new life . I feel she is putting her misery into ours cause her love life is not as good as mine . I dunno what to do but to keep thinking of what's going to happen in future .

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diaper

Hi any mommies got mamypoko diaper for newborn to bless ? Like the sample one box that contain 10 pieces at baby fair . Willing to pay $2 for one box

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stomach cramp

My edd is 21 Aug 2019 . Now is only June havent even July. I'm starting to feel cramp . And sometime the cramp is so pain till I need to stop moving and stop breathing till it's gone. Water bag never break . I think it's when baby is moving and choose to kick and push at wrong part but it's making me paranoid. I scared of pain but my tolerance in pain is also quite high . Dunno is this cramp normal to feel it now this early . But I've read online about knowing what shud I expect if I'm ready to get into labour . Some of it are happening to me . Like my back is aching also . I'm so paranoid. I never feel this kind of cramp or whatever my tummy is feeling In my first pregnancy before . Shud I be worried or is it just normal .

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baby bonus

How to apply government baby bonus ? Do I apply before I give birth or after I give birth . I forget how the baby bonus thing goes about

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