Do u let NB stay at parent in law home?

My In law suggesting they wanted to take care my NB and stay with them at night so that me n my hubby got enough rest at night.. i doesnt like it..especially my MIL mentioned that baby will sleep same bed with her/beside her... i worry later my bb tot my MIL is me....i strongly disagree,how can bb sleep with grandmother other than bb mother. my hubby support the idea coz he feel frustrated at nite bcoz not enuf rest.. Any better idea how to handle sleepless/crying bb at nite?

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Definitely a no for this. If they want to help, they can come over to stay or look after the baby in the day time. 1 method is maybe your NB doesnt know isit day or night. try to change baby's sleep routine. like in the day time, dont shut the curtains etc and make the room dark. let bb know that its the morning. and slowly fix the sleep routine. maybe can go online research up on how to change their sleep routine. but first 3 months at least no choice.. have to bear it with. so its best your MIL can take care bb in the daytime so both you and dad can rest abit more.

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2nd anon. Young parents abit more bo bian.. my cousin also like that 17y.o pregger and 18y.o give birth have to stay at in laws for abit. But tahan a few more years when you both can go work and earn money. if dont mind can start bto like 2 room flat first alot of grants. But of course both yall must earn money and for now dont get 2nd bb if not you just gonna stay longer in your in laws. Once you manage to move into your own home in the next few years, things will get better. Very proud that you are trying your best. Jia you!