my son calls me aunty...

I'm really sad. I don't know why I always feel so inferior to my own family. My mother is a very dominant person... even after I got married and had children. I'm a stepchild, you know, mom. So I already have a child. Since my child could talk, whenever my mother meets my child, she always says, "Just call her auntie. Auntie. Auuuuntie." I once asked her seriously about this... and she said, "Oh, come on, mom's just kidding." I feel really hurt being treated like this by my own family, mom.

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I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like a challenging situation to navigate, especially when it comes to family dynamics. It's important to address your feelings and communicate openly with your mother about how her actions are affecting you. One possible approach could be to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your mother, expressing how her insistence on being called "auntie" by your child makes you feel. You could share with her your perspective and how it impacts your relationship and sense of belonging within the family. Additionally, it might be beneficial to seek support from a counselor or therapist who can help you work through these emotions and provide coping strategies. Sometimes having an objective third party can offer new perspectives and guidance on how to address the situation effectively. Remember that your feelings are valid, and it's essential to prioritize your emotional well-being. Open and honest communication with your family members can help foster understanding and possibly lead to a resolution that works for everyone involved. https://invl.io/cll6she

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