im really stuck in a bored marriage after the kids. How can I do something naughty and bring back the spark with hubby

the first step is to look and feel fab, as that can take your confidence up to the sky and above ;) give thought and time to how you dress (and even what you wear underneath), how you look, your hair, a bit of makeup, some nice perfume, a fit body. next, start initiating small things such as watching a movie with hubby at home or in the hall, going out for a quick coffee date, surprising him at work for a lunch date and such. these small things will slowly make your hubby more hooked on to you, and the spark is bound to come back