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I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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Hi, I wanted to do 100days initially as well, but when my in-law request for us to send full month gifts to relatives and friends at 1st month I decided to just do at 1st month after all. You can maybe consider to suggest that to your mil if the idea works for you. Just a suggestion for consideration. Importantly, enjoy and have a great celebration regardless on when it's held. ❤

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