Stress

I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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Same as me... What we did was to go ahead with the traditions (whatever she said are) but the celebration we follow our decision. We told her, 1 month too young what if she Kenna virus from all the people attending? Out of concern for the baby, most elderlies will agree. If your main concern is on financials and time, can try this.

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