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i’m 33 weeks along & stretch marks are getting worse on my butt n thighs, getting heavier too(165.6cm 59kg. pre-pregnancy 48-51kg) . i’m super self conscious n insecure about my body since even before pregnancy, my partner doesn’t seem to mind but he jokes about it sometimes or just stare at my stretch marks n it makes me feel so disgusted with myself, i’ve mentioned many times that i don’t like my body n i’m self conscious but he still continues being insensitive.. what do i do?

Vô danh

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Hi, I was self conscious about my body at first too.. till now actually but I’ve learnt to accept (35wks just a few wks left)! For the stretch marks, are you using any oil? I used bio-oil since first trimester. It can be used when your stretch marks are already showing. Sometimes I do joke about my body too but i will specifically tell my husband that I am the only person who is allowed to do that so he rarely does it cos he knows how upset it makes me. But he doesn’t mind and told me that I am pregnant and the weight that comes with it is natural. After birth, I can start losing the weight. Try talking to your husband about your insecurities and tell him your limit when he’s joking about it. It might help.

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