I am worried that my kid is too attached to my helper. Does that mean she doesn't love me as much?

Many parents are afraid that a deeper bond with a helper will interfere with their child’s healthy attachment to them. However, studies show the opposite. When a child has a high-quality bond with a caregiver, this can actually help complement and reinforce parental attachment. Therefore, children who are more securely attached to both their nannies and parents feel more secure over all.