I think I am ready to have a kid but my husband is not. He has asked me to wait many times, but I really want to be a mother. What should we do?

having a baby should definitely be a couple decision, and unless your husband is really ready for the second baby, i dont think you should force him to. ask him why he wants to wait. maybe he wants to spend time with you? maybe he feels that already there is a lot going on, and having another baby may add to the chaos? you can explain that having a baby now will mean you guys can spend the initial baby year being busy, then have the rest of your life to enjoy. or, maybe it is fine to wait and enjoy with him and your kid for now, then plan the second.