i am starting to lose trust for my husband. he always keeps secret. he dont let me touch his cellphone. he dont want me to see how much money he has. he's not telling me where he's going. is there a reason for me to get mad?

I've been married for 10 years with my husband. Of the 3 things you mentioned, I only expect him to tell me where he is going. I don't look at his handphone and I don't need to know how much money he has as long as he continues to pay for the items that he has to, as previously agreed by us. I think between a husband and wife, you don't have to invade into each other's privacy to too much an extent. Allow certain things to be kept private will let each other have some breathing space. It will make a healthier relationship. Getting paranoid about things that he already dont feel like sharing is like walking on a time bomb.