I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

Then tell him ok lor i tc of kids house 100% u earn money come back u give kids money u stay out of my house since u not going to help me with anything then u dun stay here.

well bonding is a must. So what if he bring just money home. You have your job to take care of kid. If not then close one eyes to housework chores do it over the wekend.

my hb do say that once in awhile. but he is ocd guy... he do clean up n tc of kids. sometime quite piss off when they say that. i feel like f maan. i shall go work. lol.

Sorry but what the hell? He thinks that you are a maid? Then tell him to pay you for a maid price. Maid also have off day. Ur husband is ridiculous

My husband did that to me too. One fine day when i stop doing chores and focus on my baby more and until he cannot tahan he help me with almost everything

try asking your husband to do 100% of what you do at home for 24hrs. im sure he will give up like mine did. he regretted for saying all that.

No, this is not right. They have to help, and he have to help bond with the child. Talk to him and take care.

That’s more fair. He should help with at least a few things. Talk to him and try to convince. All the best

OMG! He deserves a punch in his face. Whatever he said is outrageous. That is not acceptable.

he should be sharing the burden instead of you alone! you got to talk to him again.