mother in law

I am really really sick of having to be fighting for my feelings when it comes to my own pregnancy. My first pregnancy and I'm not married however me and my partner stayimg together. My partner's mother is always seeking for attention and creating such problems that her son is not talking to her or visiting her that often and causing me and my partner to have so much of arguments because she sometimes blames me for taking her only son away from her. Now that I'm pregnant she wants to follow for my appointments and I really just need my partner there and ended up in an argument with my partner where he said I am ungrateful for not letting is mother follow. Seriously I am so furious and upset that he puts his mother feelings over mine when it comes to my pregnancy. I am the type of person who does not go out or have any close friends and have no one else to talk to. I just feel so sick sometimes and depressed.

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Quite frustrating. My mil don't like me. My husband is the only son too. We did stay together for a Yr then I move back to my mum place till I got my own home. Maybe u can don't stay together is the best or appt you can let her go but alternate. Let your partner understand. At least you didn't completed stop his mum from coming. My 13yrs of marriage nv have a talk or good terms with my mil. You need to think and plan probably. Sometime have to take 1 step back sometime no. Then your partner will not be saying those unpleasant word to u. No point head to head with him. Talk wisely.

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