I really hate my mother in law. She gets jealous easily. She made such a big fuss and cried when my hubby gave me a gift for wedding anniversary. My hubby is at his wits end. We bring my in laws out regularly and buy things for her occasionally too. How do I tell her to grow up?

Your mother-in-law is just a little bit insecure and surprisingly, it is very common after son's wedding!! You hating her would just make the matter worse since it would reflect in your actions.Getting your mother-in-law to change would be more taxing than you experimenting to better the situation. Hopefully, she will come around. Of course keep your husband in loop so he is there for you in case experiment goes wrong :) Try some tips mentioned here: http://postweddinglife.com/dealing-mother-in-law-complete-guide-chapter-3-3/