Berhenti tanpa offer atau bertahan lagi?

Sayang, I really feel for you, my friend Azreen pun went through almost the same thing, anak kecil, commute lama, and she told me the hardest part was that guilt of only seeing her baby for a short while each day before bedtime. She did wait until she had an offer first, and she said even though it was tough to hold on a few more months, having that financial security gave her so much peace of mind once she finally resigned. Someone in my mum WhatsApp group mentioned that resigning without anything lined up boleh affect your negotiating power for your next salary too, sebab future employers sometimes ask why the gap, so better to interview while still employed kalau boleh tahan sikit lagi. That said, another mum in our group did resign without an offer when her baby was around the same age as yours, and she said honestly she had no regrets because her mental health improved so much and she could focus better on job hunting once the stress of that commute was lifted, so it really depends on how you are coping inside, dear. Your manager's advice is practical and kind, but only you know your own limit, and with emergency savings plus komitmen half gaji, maybe waiting just 2-3 bulan lagi sambil aggressively applying might give you the best of both worlds. Whatever you decide, please be gentle with yourself, you are already doing so much for your family.

Setuju cakap manager, lebih baik stress kerja dari stress takde duit. Lain macam perginya. Tapi kalau nak resign jugak, kena ready mental fizikal. Sy dah merasa kerja dan sahm, sy lebih memilih bekerja. Kalau resign dulu sebelum dapat offer, serious cakap risiko tu sangat besar. Kita yang ada anak kecik ni susah company nak terima melainkan terpaksa. Even my husb nak cari staff pun dia taknak perempuan dah kawin, dia kata nanti banyak cuti sebab anak. Sebab mengandung. So dia taknak rugi. Jadi fikirkan mana terbaik. Fikir jauh sebelum buat keputusan. Goodluck mommy

Bila tengok posting sis ni, saya terus teringat yg saya tengah mengandung xtahu apa nasib sebab saya kerja ulang alik melaka - kl setiap hari & naik bas. Rezeki ada anak pun mmg takde dalam plan tapi alhamdulillah saya happy dan terima dengan hati yg terbuka. Setiap hari saya fikir saya mampu ke? Tapi mcm mana pun saya rasa saya takan ambik risiko utk berhenti sebab ekonomi zaman skg tak menentu. Betul la kata bos sis, biar stress benda lain dari stress pasal duit. Terima kasih utk bos sis dengan kata2 tu. Jadi semangat utk saya jugak.

Hi sis, saya rasa semua yang nak resign tanpa backup akan rasa ragu ragu dengan keputusan yang nak dibuat. Tapi percayalah, rezeki kita semua dah tertulis. InsyaAllah ada rezeki lain untuk sis dan keluarga. Awal tahun haritu pun saya berhenti tanpa backup plan. Kemudian dapat kerja lepastu tapi environment situ pulak tak okay. So saya resign lagi tanpa backup plan. InsyaAllah, moga Allah buka pintu rezeki seluar luasnya dan keluarga

kalau pendapat saya, better ada back up plan dulu puan. dgn ekonomi sekarang, susah org nak amek kerja lagi2 bila tahu kita ada anak kecik.. unless kalau suami boleh cover dulu komitmen puan sementara waktu (kut2 belum dpt keje lepas 2 bulan), mungkin boleh consider utk resign dan cari keje lain. puan cuba istikharah dulu.. semoga dipermudahkan 🤲🏻

Kalau nak resign, pastikan komitmen hutang itu ini selesai & ada simpanan gaji 6 bulan.

Semoga urusan awak skluarga dpermudahkan. Aamiin

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