How to deal with paggro mother just cos you don’t listen to everything she says?? Thanks in advance

I know it’s out of concern but it has become quite extreme like insisting that I buy expensive bird’s nest for myself and when I commented I’d rather spend on other things, she started become passive aggressive and say ok next time don’t have to give me advice etc, don’t need to listen to what she says. And then when she saw me drinking yakult she nagged at me SO MUCH, says ok don’t listen to me then. #advicepls Don’t know how to deal with this!!! It’s just gonna get worse next time if I don’t listen to any of her “baby advice”

Vô danh

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Is this your mum or mil? Hide from her when you’re doing ‘illegal things’. Haha. But I can understand how it can affect your mental state. I think sometimes they just wanna be involved. Understand that they’re doing it out of concern just that they don’t know how to express it properly. So if it was me in the case of bird nest right, I would buy cheaper options like maybe those bottled ones. Then only drink in front of them. Then if they ask why you buy so cheap one then you say I got no money I need funds to buy other necessities. They will see that their opinions are respected but maybe you really don’t have the means to or really don’t think it’s worth it. Maybe next time you got free bird nest to drink 😊

Vô danh

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My mum! I didn’t even know yakult is “liang”😂 when I take ice cream or cold drinks I definitely hide from her hahaha. The thing is that she keeps saying buy the dried expensive one better even though I bought cheaper bottled ones :/ then she even nagged that I keep buying MSW durians could have spent on bird’s best lolllll. Sigh :(

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Home Pregnancy i know out concern but has become quite extreme like insisting that i buy