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I am pro choice here. If you want to abort don't drag too long. Abortion will be your choice. Though I'm not sure if during divorce proceedings, will your husband use this as a kind of argument against you, depending on the accusations and such. But if both of you have no kids, then this shouldn't be an issue, I think. However, do realize that emotionally you may have a difficult time getting over the abortion. But I'm not so sure if you will be able to handle your child alone if you were to keep him/her. I suggest you talk to your family, your mum, close friends, a counselor or a trusted senior. You need some advice right now
Do give the baby up for adoption if u don't want it. Do give it a chance at life. Pls don't terminate its life. It would be good to talk to your husband to see if he wants the baby, if neither of you want it, give it up to those who want a child but can't have one. My Sil aborted her child as she was unmarried that time and it has remained her greatest regret n heartpain, one that can never be amended.. Do reconsider, a life is in your hands
There is no right or wrong in abortion or marriage. End of the day is up to your choice. I won't ask you to keep, or not to keep as i am an outsider. You have to decide what is best for yourself & your children if you have any now. If your soon to be ex husband is horrible, like example, hits you or abuse you mentally, i wouldn't advise you to stay in such painful relationship. It brings more harm than good.
It's your choice dear, a difficult one maybe. I am not going to persuade you to keep or give up, however, having being able to conceive at my age, I do feel that babies are gifts from the above, some couples could never even have one. It will be good if you can keep the baby, or give it up for adoption rather than aborting. No matter what, I wish you the best in mind and health. Take care.
Knowing that you are pregnant now, you shd try to salvage the marriage. You may wish to inform yr hunby as he has the rights to know. Discuss on what you want to do 1st. Don't make rush decision. Pls think through carefully as yr baby is a life in you and he/she has already a chance to live. Don't just because of u and hubby, baby got to suffer.
Abortion is your own personal choice but irregardless of your status with your spouse, it is unfair for you to deny a father his child and cruel for you to deny a life to start. I hope things pan out well for you. Best wishes.
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There won't be any legal problems as abortion is your personal choice as long as it is before 24 weeks. I would advise you to either keep the child or give it up for adoption instead of resorting to abortion.
Maybe your pregnancy was a blessing in disguise, to keep this marriage alive. Pls don't abort. I was a sibling of an aborted child. To know that I could have had a brother was heartbreaking.
In my view.. There love still between you and your hubby.. If not you will not get pregnant too.. Maybe you two can have a good talk and make a decision together.. Don't stress yourself up..