Life with two kids

I have a 3 year old toddler and a 1+ month baby. Regret is a strong word to use. I'm starting to wonder how life is without kids, how peaceful it will be, how much free time i'll have. I don't know if i hate it or love it. It's like i don't feel im meant to be a mother because mother loves how it feels and i don't. When it's good it's great, but when it gets exhausting, i feel like packing my bags and leave. That's how tired i am. Idk if i can do this. I feel like such a disappointment.

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Dear mummy, since you’ve chosen to have babies, then there is no room for regrets. Yes it is tiring. But don’t you be grateful that these little ones also adds in much more laughter to you? Have you thought of speaking to a mental wellness counsellor? You may call 6389-2222. Tell somebody and seek help. Your life can be better. (:

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Pei

Counting blessings and enjoying life’s little pleasures

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Agree. We are allowed to feel the way we feel. What’s important is that we acknowledge the feelings, manage our reactions and perhaps, try to solve any problems that caused that. We all go through tough times and need support. I think it is a good idea to seek help and talk to people to try to solve the problem at hand :) Hang in there!!

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