i just found out i am pregnant, i should be feeling happy but im not. currently i have a 16month old boy, intended to have a second one end of next year. reason being i haven have enough time for myself n my boy for the past 16 months dur to my heavy work commitment. i have just quit my job hoping to have more time for my boy, also some time for myself. Also i was hoping tat after i resign i can persuade my hub to ask my mil to return to her own house to stay as i can look after my own kid. Was having alot of issues staying with my mil and because she is looking after my kid i have to tolerate. now with my pregnancy all my plans will be jeopardized. if my mil learnt i am preggy all the more she will not move back... now even if i have the time to spent with my boy i can no longer baby carry him... all these thoughts made me feel upset. am i abnormal to feel my lo came at the wrong time? i seriously dont wish to b preggy now. how can i adjust my feelings...

Vô danh

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Just curious does your husband support your decision to quit your job and take care the kids? How are the financial arrangements and funds for rainy days? If this is a unilateral decision by yourself, I cannot help but foresee the marriage under going stress for the next couple of years. All in All, I strongly advise you not to request your MIL to leave because is going to be a nightmare taking care of 2 kids. You need that extra hands.

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