I feel that I have no social life ever since I became a Mum.(don't be mistaken, I love my child and my role as a Mother truly) As I'm a young mum when I had my kid, most of my friends are still in my their singlehood or non-parent life. Due to our differences they had also drawn a line between us and I find it hard to re-connect back to them anymore. I can't meet to their schedule or life interest too due to my own commitment. I'm absolutely ok with being alone and doing things myself most of the time but there are days where I do feel really lonely. My hub and siblings are like my only "friends" now. My work place culture also happened to be that people don't have lunch or connect and socialise together too as our office is a small one with just a few of us. Its not their style to mingle. I think some of the mummies may face this problem too. How do you manage or cope with this feeling ? :S

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I'm 21 years old with a 2 year old son, most of my friends are either in army, working or in university at the moment. I understand how it feels, and it can be hard at times - especially when you meet up after a long time and then end up realizing you no longer have common topics! What you can do is to make friends with other parents, there are many (like me!) who have kids young too :) Another thing you can do is to take those alone times and spend time on taking care of yourself.

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