So sorry to hear that.
Well, I feel that you can enroll your 1st to childcare and baby to infant care. The teachers could teach and guide or take care them.
Working mother has more government subsidies.
I rather send them to childcare to let them learn and socialize than let them stay at home as I feel your place not so positive for them. For short term, maybe they can help you take care( maybe don't need to spend so much to parent). But for long term, I feel is not a good growing environment for them.
While you with them, you got to endure and explain to them. While you with your husband, try to speak to him peaceful but not complaint and nagging style. Try to release positive thinking / spirit or solutions so that your husband could feel you and works with you!
Luckily me that I'm not staying with both side parents but I need to handle everything myself. I would try to do everything myself so that I don't need depends on others.
Well, Positive attracts positive. Negative loves negative.
Jia you mummy!
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