Sex during pregnancy

Hi, I caught my husband watching porn and I already had an instinct it's been going on ever since I'm pregnant. I cant have sex as I have miscarried before so doctor advised that especially during this first trimester I would need to be very careful. What should I do? Anyone of you care to share if experiencing the same pls and what did you do. My heart feels it's being broken into pieces.

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I wouldn't consider watching porn to be cheating or anything negative at all tbh. Guys have watched porn long before they know us and they will continue to do so. I know my husband watches porn and sometimes we watch together, it's fun and helps create the mood. It's healthy for them to regularly relief themselves and would be unhealthy to hold it in. I understand your position as I was super low mood during my pregnancy and we only had sex like 3 times throughout the pregnancy, but you should understand your husband's position too. If you are uncomfortable with him watching porn, why not offer him a hand or help him in any other way that doesn't include PIV sex? That way you can still feel included and he gets his relief too, it's win win :)

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Men should learn to control lor. How is it soo easy for them to find replacement/relief. Looking at other women????