caught my husband watching porn

Last night, I accidentally saw the search history on my husband's phone, and it turns out there are a lot of porn sites. He just came back from a week-long business trip. I'm really sad... I feel betrayed. Does he masturbate and fantasize about other women? It's true that my husband often initiates sexual intimacy. Maybe if we don't have sex for a week, it's quite hard for him... but still, this makes me sad and angry. But I haven't told him yet because I'm afraid I might just be overreacting. Is this normal?

Vô danh

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This is just solely my pov, we all have different bottom lines and acceptance. I feel it’s normal to watch rather than they find an actual human outside to satisfy their needs (likewise for females). My husband do watch it too when I’m not in the mood or not convenient (preg/period) and he’s quite transparent about this. However, it would be nice to let him know your concerns rather than bottling up or second guessing. Communication is important and you can also hear his pov.

For most men, porn means nothing, just an outlet for them to find relief. Unless he's addicted and it's affecting his daily life and responsibilities, then I'll be concerned. In fact, if I'm not in the mood,I'll ask my hubs to go settle it himself haha.

I will be upset too tbh as I also see it as betrayal. I would seek a good time to ask him about it and hope he doesn’t lie which would make the situation even worse.

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