I cant help but cried and felt super sad when hubby told me "i think ur pregnancy is quite relax and nt tedious hor, cox i also nv see u in much pain" Matter of fact is, when i was nt feeling well and in great pain, either he was nt by my side or just ignore me. All these i also nv complaint a word, jus endure the pain and still gotta look aft no 1 myself who is jus 15mo. I have very bad lower back and joint issue which i cant stand or walk too much even when im a normal person(nt preg). I will experience sharp piercing pain as and when now cox gynae says pelvic bones are expanding, thus the pain will be more and frequent. I could feel the pain until i cried. But most heartpain is, hubby thinks its ok and just endure lo or take pain killer if its so unbearable. Sigh... to some extent, i rather nt tell him and make myself feeling terrible. Sometimes i would just wanna rest and lie dwn on my back and hubby will say like "wah u very eng hor, can rest liao and u expect me to look aft no1 isit" It hurts to hear this leh. I cant help but cry deep down. Feeling heartbroken.

Sometimes it helps when u tell your spouse in regards to your pain. I always told my hubby when i am in pain and he will help me with whatever he can help as i too have a 13 mth old boy and 3 school going girls.

It’s a joint commitment so speak up to your husband for his help. There’s only so much we can do and it’s really tiring if you are pregnant. Have a talk soon.

I think you should talk to ur hubby. And that his words hurts you. Sometime guys talk without thinking, he may not know that he already hurt you with his words.

stay strong mummy, it’s understandable to what you’re feeling. have you tried to speak to hubby about it? or did he brush it off?

Don’t be Don’t stress Enjoy your pregnancy journey Sometimes it’s the hormones Sometimes hubbies can be abit “dumb”

Please have a good talk with your husband, you should not keep your feelings and pain inside. Marriage is all about honesty.

cheer up mummy. our husband will never understand our pain and plight

Maybe you need to act tired, nauseated and in pain in front of him.

I think you should have a good talk with your husband

Poor thing, you should voice it to your husband