cheated on me :(

Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.

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There are many excuses for committing adultery, both accidental or not, and all of them are not valid. It doesn't matter whether or not a person did it under the influence. Cheating, and things like it, is a choice you decide to do not in the heat of the moment but beforehand: if you're a person of integrity, you know your moral code and set boundaries for yourself. You need to address this problem ASAP. How you'd address it, however, is entirely up to you. Do what YOU think is best for the relationship. Good luck.

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