How do you tell your husband that you want to move out of your in laws without offending him? We still live with my inlaws. I have no work but hubby does. We have a 20 month old little girl. I used to work but since baby is exclusively breastfed and we cant get a nanny or more so I am afraid of nanny I stayed at home. My parents in law are ok, especially MIL. But sometimes my FIL is difficult to deal with as well as my brother in law. I know its not gonna be easy for us and difficult for hubby. Since to afford living on our own means we need to earn more. I have to work (?) who's going to watch the bubba? haayy

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Moving out will be a huge expense unless you are willing to return to workforce, which means you will have less time to spend with your daughter. Every decision has its own pros and cons. You can try to talk to your husband about the difficulties that you are facing with your FIL and brainstorm viable solutions. Get your husband to talk to your FIL. Hope you can find a solution for your situation.

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