How do you rekindle the flame of love for your husband? Most of our time is spent taking care of the kids, so we really don't get to spend much quality time together. I fear that this might take a toll on our marriage. Any suggestions for improving our relationship?

I am in the same situation as you, spending more attention on my kids than my husband. What I do to maintain relationship with my husband is we set a bi-weekly dating e.g. simple dinner, movie date, jogging together and etc. For me, I am glad that my MIL is able to help me to take care of kids at night after they go to bed and thus we are able to go out for a short date. If you do not have additional member to help with kids for you and husband to go out, you can actually park your kid at your friend or neighbor house, which is what my friend is doing too.