How do you reignite the spark between you and your husband? Constant arguments due to finacial,work,kids. Its been straining our relationship alot. Any marriage advice?

# I think a fight over financials happen only when you haven't chalked out roles for both. In my family, I am the restraining type and my wife is THE big spender who has to be controlled from time to time. But since she understands my judgement, she kinda obeys my decision on most occasions. # In case of chores, even we have had our fare share of fights to come to a mutual understanding about our roles, I do not like to clean a lot but then If its my mess, I clean. She does the laundry and so on. Trick is to not get irritable and frustrated. #Other trick - Plan everything together. It helps both the partners understand what's important for the other. and if I screw things up, I have a clever gift ready before I face her :) # Also we usually go out for a fancy dinner after every fight as a rule which we never break.