How do you deal when your hubby commented that you are slow in doing most things like finishing housework directly and lazy indirectly? Also, I feel offended when I got to use effort to do the daily housework and yet face with such comment. It's not as if I get the chance to even have afternoon nap most of the time despite feeling tired. I also have been searching for a full time job for past 6 months but to no avail and he thought that I am lazy. I commented his brother is the one who is lazy when most of the jobs he had he won't stay long and yet he does not even have to do housework. I even got to flush his pee when I was the second person to use in the past. My hubby is protective towards him. I felt very disappointed! Kept saying that I am not working of course I would need to do the housework. I even ask him to take leave to help me in cleaning the windows as I am not able to reach and we only cleaned once every 6-8 months yet he showed me a black face or ignored my request:( Disgusting guy!