Have your husband ever complain that your mum is helping too much with the baby that he feels unhappy? He’s thankful that my mum is willing to help but unhappy that my mum will take baby away when he’s trying to soothe her himself. What should I do? Quite tiring to get caught in between.

I feel that your hubby should have priority over his kids. You should be glad that your hubby is willing to look after them, not every father does that. If your mum is afraid he is new to it, all the more she should let your hubby learn and guide him. But not take the kids away from him. Imagine his mum doing that to you; you’ll definitely feel hurt.