Husband in dating/hooking up apps

Hey all, good day! I wanna ask you guys about something, i caught my husband on dating/hooking up apps recently. I dont know if i'm being over dramatic or not. I was not able to see their conversation, when confronted, he admitted that he has been doing it everytime we having argument (married for about 5 years). Our sex frequency is honestly not that high, but in my opinion, he rarely initiates too. We have a 3 year old kid. When i was pregnant, i had the placenta previa condition which prevent me from having sex with him. Our sex frequency also was not that high even before we got pregnant. When asked abt the apps, he said he just did it because he was not getting enough from me. I admit I rarely initiate the sex . So my question is, is it normal that i feel so mad and thinking about a divorce? Would you do the same?

Vô danh

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I’m sorry to hear that you’re going thru this while in a marriage and with a small kid. Actually, I was in a similar situation as you but less complicated lah. My then-bf was on dating app while in a relationship with me. I found out and his reason was some “ego problem” and unhealthy stress management. Obviously I was damn angry and called it quits but he was remorseful and worked really hard to salvage our relationship. He went to therapy for a year to work on himself and he gave me access to his phone, his cc bills, texting apps, social media accs, even banking and financial statements and also updated me hourly his whereabouts with photos. It took me like 2 years to truly forgive him and he’s my hubby now and i still have all the access. Conclusion, if your husband really wants you and save the marriage he will be willing to do the necessary and it’s hard work on both sides to rebuild the trust. Good luck fellow mummy

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