Feeling depressed. My in-laws expect a boy from us right from the start. We have 3 girls now. And now that am pregnant again, they think the 4th one for sure is a boy. If it's a girl again, they will definitely think something is wrong with me and I am super unlucky not to have a boy at all. Seriously don't feel like announcing my pregnancy to them and also sharing the gender with them. #1 it was 75% confirm to be a girl and they insists the doctor is talking bullshit. Oh Wells.

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Hi, I get your point and understand what you must be going through but no matter what the situation is the fact is that the gender of the baby is not in anyone's hand. And I think this is the reality that we all should accept without blaming anyone. I know, at this point you too would want to have a baby boy because you have three daughters and that would have held true for a girl if you had three boys already. But as I said that that the gender of the baby is not in anyone's hand. If you have an understanding with your husband then make him deal with his parents and otherwise too there is no need to feel depressed about this thing. Hold your head high and announce that it is not you is creating the baby's gender inside you and when you happily accept whatever the baby's gender is, others too should accept it happily, and if not, the n they should keep their concern with themselves and do not spread it and spoil your family peace.

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