Choosing an OBGYN
Hi experienced parents, I'm currently 12 weeks pregnant and this is my first baby. I would like to ask for your advice on choosing a good OBGYN and what we should look out for when choosing a good doctor. I am currently at KKH under subsidized rates but feeling very uncomfortable as the follow-up has been poor. They gave me some scares initially - bicornuate uterus, threatened miscarriage (3x) and went through a lot of testing but when I ask for results at the next appointment somehow they cannot find it! And I had to press the doctors to look for the results. After that I decided to go to TMC based on my friends' recommendation. The charges are expensive. The dr is slightly better at follow up but not so reassuring. I have been issues with bleeding everyday (brown spotting) but 3 cases of fresh bleed and I have to keep paying almost $200 each visit when I bleed. Up till now, there is no news on the cause and still waiting for a 2nd infection test. I'm wondering if anyone went through the same experience and was able to find a good OBGYN who was able to manage all these issues? If not, should I try to be less anxious and stick with TMC and trust the process?