How Can I Make My Hubby Come Back?

Hi everyone I really don't know what can I do to make my husband love me again. Our relationship has been very sour ever since the birth of our daughter. Till the extend we are staying separately. We do not have our own place. Our main issue is he don't trust me in taking care of our baby. He sides his parents alot. We had alot of quarrel till the extend he send a lawyer letter to me and wanna have our baby. I tried talking to him many time even recently he told me he don't love me anymore. He gave me 2 choice 1. To move back and stay tgt be the parent to our baby that's all. Or he will fight for our baby. I really love my hub alot. I wanna keep our family tgt. But I really can't live with my in laws anymore. They are the issue to majority of our issues. And I don't know how to sleep beside someone who no longer love me. How can I make my hub love me again? How can I make him want this family again? I really don't know what should I do.

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Hi. I am really sorry to hear that. You are a very patient person. For me, i dont think i hv that patience. To me, if someone cn't even LISTEN and acknowledge my concerns, especially own husband, who should be by your side for good and worse, i would umm feel so betrayed. He uses lawyer probably cz he's so afraid that you mite never let him see the kid forever. Not bcz he dont trusts you maybe. I am not sure. Bcz you wanna save this marriage, and cz he is not listening, i suggest you write an email to express your sincere concern and wanting to get together again as family, for family's sake, not for anyone else's sake. You both brought your kid to the world with God's Grace, so you BOTH gotta be the best for your kid. Maybe he loves you deep inside but bcz of current circumstances he said otherwise. I am not sure abt this cz like i said, i will nvr have that patience. It sure does hurt alot if he said he doesn't love you anymore. But cz you are sincere to want to make this wrk, tryta remind him of the good days, on why you both got married in the first place. Husband and wife are d only 2 persons who cn make a marriage wrk. Not the third parties. They do not matter. What they say dont matter. They don't get to decide. Tell your husband to let you be your kid's mother. Cz you are the mother. Not your mil. Get that right. You got this sis!!! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

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I don't know how can I make him listen to me. Whatever text I send him he will just ignore.