Do you regret having children? Do u wish you had gone for an abortion instead?

yes I did. financially I'm struggling. my husband doesn't plan money at all. I even may hv to wrk as courier in 3rd tri. if society is not discriminatory, I might hv aborted. I was flamed n cursed for thinking this way. even closed my first fb acc cos was receiving hate msgs. so u r one lucky babe this group is super encouraging n supportive. but if I m not financially strapped, I wouldn't consider abortion at all. my #1 is a gem