Did you have a baby shower?

I chose not to have a baby shower, but insted have small groups of friends and family members come at different times of the week so I wouldn't have to entertain so many people at one go. I didn't want to stress my son out with so many people either. It was a few intimate gatherings, and everyone was happy. Plus, I didn't have to waste so much money on venue, expensive cakes and decorations.