My child is an atheist. How did this happen when I raised her as a Hindu Brahmin?

Such is life. We can only guide children and do our best that they follow whatever we do. We always want our children to follow us because we think we are right, and set ourselves as benchmark. We should introduce our children to all religions and cultures and should leave it upon them what to do. Let them be free in their disposition, only then they will discuss their deepest fears and joys with you. If you will put the pressure of expectations upon them, they will be a closed heart in front of you. I suggest, accept their outlook and choices in life, and if there's something that you really think is not fine, discuss with them. Give them logical reasoning than emotionally binding them. This way, your kids will be open to discussions and buying your point of view.

I'm guessing that your child is of some age now to be talking about this. What I can say is: 1) Respect whatever your child believes in, even if it's not the same as yours - that's the best thing you can do as a parent. Be it religious beliefs, aspirations in life, what she loves to do, things she likes - please, please, please give her the support! 2) Don't force your ideas on her, and respect those differences - she probably doesn't get in your way with her beliefs, so don't get in her way with yours.

your child grew up and met the world, that is all that happened. i am quite glad that your child has an independent mind that can reason for itself. do not be disheartened please. whether your child is an atheist or not, the more important thing is to make sure your child is a compassionate and caring human being. if she didn't find a reason to believe in a particular religion or god, it is entirely her choice. let her find her life and her beliefs in her way, while you follow yours :)

Your child went to school, socialised and got in touch with other aspects of the world etc -- and made a different choice in terms of faith and beliefs. It happens. Parents can lay all the groundwork and foundation but if the child comes to his own conclusion and decisions in the future, it's inevitable. You're not in the wrong, he is not in the wrong. It is how it is.

We can't force our beliefs on our children. Children, as they grow up, raise questions, think a lot, want logic behind everything. Might be he finds some rituals illogical and hence doesn't want to believe in all this. Accept your child's decision with love.

Your child is an individual, not your extension. As parents, we can only pass on our traditions but to follow or not follow is totally up them! Let him follow what he feels like! Belief in God or religion shouldn't be forced.