Sperm Analysis

Its been difficult for me and my husband. We have been trying for quite some time and went to the doctor for checkups etc. We both knew the problem was me because of my irregular menses. The doctor recommended for a sperm analysis (on top of my blood test for hormones etc etc). My husband didnt say anything during the checkup but we got into an argument because he didnt want to. Today, I found out that he cried telling his parents abt the sperm analysis because i told him to do it (which he already did and submitted) Should i be upset or should i feel guilty about it? #PleaseAdvice #pleasehelp #thankyou

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Just a question - why need to inform your in laws about your partner going for sperm analysis? Me and my partner had gone through a lot in this ttc journey. But from the beginning until now, we did not mention a single thing to both side parents (be it fertility check/doing ivf). We feel that at the end of the journey having a baby in hand is more impt than the process. Anyways i feel u dont have to feel upset or guilty about it. It takes two hands to clap. Guys cant be pushing all the cannot concieve to ladies as there are a lot of factors now will affect their sperm quality (e.g age/lifestyle). And sperm analysis is quite common for guys nowadays.

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