Your feelings are completely valid, mummy. I assume this is an unplanned pregnancy, thus why you're feeling worried? Medical science is advanced now, so there shouldn't be too much of a worry, especially if you're healthy as well.
I feel like 4 years old is a good age. They can understand well as long you prep them throughout the pregnancy journey.
Communicate to your spouse whatever you're feeling so you don't bottle it up too much to yourself. Wish you all the best!
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