unexpected pregnancy 😭

My baby is only 5 months old. I've been using an IUD and felt safe... until suddenly I felt nauseous after eating my husband's homemade omelet. Sure enough, I'm pregnant again 😭 I'm thinking of terminating this pregnancy because I'm not ready for another child. I'm experiencing quite severe baby blues. Just thinking about it makes me want to run away. But my husband says not to terminate it, because a child is a blessing from God. I'm really angry with my husband. I'm confused about what to do now... Does anyone have any advice?

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Im not a good person to advice but i would be the same if i were to accidentally get pregnant even with a contraceptive. In all honesty, As i went thru csect and my recover was extremely horrible and my mental health is so bad till now, i told my husband at any point of time for the next 2 years if i accidentally get pregnant, i want to terminate it. I dont care what people say. I need to be mentally stable to take care of my current baby (6months). Easy for the husband to say a child is a blessing when they’re doing fine and not having the depression or blues. And theyre not the one that will go thru the pregnancy and birth. Do whats best for you and your body. And no if they say youre being irresponsible if youre terminating the pregnancy, youve been responsible enough to get a contraceptive.

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