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Anyone wanted more than one kid before giving birth to first kid and then change your mind after your first kid? I feel my husband is not suitable to be a father. He is reluctant to adjust his lifestyle for baby. He is always obsessed with entertainment. Eg watch running man during meals instead of watching baby and interacting with baby while baby eats

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Super Mom

Hi mama, I hear you and I can empathise. It’s not easy to parent alone. May I ask if you’ve tried speaking to him about this? Telling him exactly how you feel and give specific examples. Men can be very practical and factual individuals. He may also feel detached somewhat as dads may feel that baby forms inside mama from the start and they don’t feel like they can be any part of it. If it gets worse, suggest to see a counsellor. Sometimes having a mediator and a third party with an unbiased view helps. You need both of you to raise this child holistically and that’s something he should be aware of. Best wishes to you :)

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